The prophet (peace and blessings of allaah be upon him) said:
"when I try to test one of my servants through his body, wealth or offspring, then he will welcome him with patience, then on the day of judgment, I will be able to establish a balance for him or open his name."
Patience is a moral and ethical virtue through which man increases the ladder of success.
The need for patience often occurs at times in difficulties and troubles. This is the time when man is tired of all kinds of things.
Abas has nothing but patience, then man has to work with tolerance and endurance, he is called patience.
The literal definition of patience is as follows
The meaning of patience is to stay, stay or stay, and to stop the self on the thing on which the wisdom and the law of stopping (to stay stuck) is demanding, or to keep the self from the thing which is demanding the wisdom and the law is called patience. There are mainly two types of patience:
(1) to endure physical hardships such as physical patience and to persevere on them.
(2) to be patient with physical desires and requirements of desire.
The first type of patience is appreciated when the law agrees, but the second type of patience is fully appreciated.
What the law forbids is patience.
Patience from unwanted work is desirable. Patience is prohibited for the painful act which is legally prohibited.
For example, if a person or his son's hand is cut off unjustly, then the person is silent and patient.
Patience jamil, the best patience is that no one can recognize the person in trouble, his problem does not appear to anyone.
The highest degree of patience is to be patient over the suffering that comes from people.
The prophet (peace and blessings of allaah be upon him) said, "o messenger of Allah!" and the prophet (peace and blessings of allaah be upon him) said: "I say to you," do not avenge evil with evil, but whoever kills you on one cheek, put your other cheek ahead of him, which is your shepherd, you should offer him a shirt, and whoever forces you to walk with him, you should go with him for two miles. "all these instructions have been said to be patient, and this is the highest time of patience."
A few ways to increase the blessing of patience.
Praying patience.
Prayer is the weapon of the believer, when the believer will not use his weapon, his dangerous enemy, the devil, will continue to attack him, and instead of patience, patience will continue to be ungrateful.
Patience to study the virtues.
Because there is a good idea of any good work or good deeds, then it becomes a quick mind to act on it, patience is the virtue of which the virtues of the qur 'an and hadith
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Creating humility in yourself
There is also a tremendous cause of patience and revenge on the pain that comes from someone, when the servant creates humility in his own self, the mind of revenge will end, and the patience of the people will be patient, and mercy will be rewarded on this patience.
Adopt the habit of forgiving
When someone is hurt by someone, the person is encouraged to take revenge on him, which is to be forgiven, when he adopts the habit of forgiving, he will also be patient when he comes to trouble.
Look at the person with a lot of trouble.
Because whoever is in trouble, he thinks that maybe I have had the most or the greatest trouble, and that is what sometimes makes him impatient.